Why do people enjoy Cuckolding?
Getting turned on by watching your partner have sex with someone else is a fetish called Cuckolding.
It appears to be a fairly common fetish as we discovered in our research for content for our library of Femdom Ebooks. Cuckold is one of the highest searched ‘porn’ terms on the Internet and is very popular with our readers.
To dispel a bit of a myth is that it is not only men that want to be cucked. It does not appear to be limited to a specific gender or sexuality.
The “cuckoldress” isn’t always a woman with the watcher or third party not always being a man. Although in earlier years the term used to refer to a man who was unaware of being cuckolded by his wife. Today the cuckold is most often completely aware and encouraging of their partner’s involvement.
There are many reasons why people enjoy it and it differs between the roles too.
Psychologists have arrived at a few reasons why someone could be turned on by their partner enjoying sex with someone else.
Jealousy can be very arousing to the male watcher and some psychologists think it is part of what ignites sperm competition and gets a male ready to fight for the win. When someone else wants your partner, it can put your desire into overdrive and make you want them more than anything.
Humiliation also plays an important part in cuckolding. Watching your partner cheat on you can ramp up the erotic intensity of the act. Some like being laughed at or humiliated by their partner and the other participant. Of course, in consenting to being cuckolded this particular scenario is not quite so potent.
Being naughty by in a monogamous relationship by involving a third party can also be a big turn on for some participants.
Pleasure of the physical kind that you can get from participating in sexual acts with a third party can intensify and improve the sex between you and your partner.
For some the domination element is a turn on with the ‘female’ taking on the sexually dominant role. They have sex with others while the cuck gets nothing or only if the cuckoldress allows them to.