Back in the 1980s and 1990s in the USA, there was a frequently aired advertisement from a company called Hair Club for Men. The punch line from the CEO was that “I’m not the Hair Club President; I’m also a client.” I can relate to that man because when it comes to Female Domination, I’m not only a Femdom writer but also a client. And as a client, I’m here to tell you about a recent experience I had, as well as to offer my own insights into getting what you what from a professional Domme.
I recently engaged in the most humiliating session with a young Domme. After meeting her first at a coffee shop to determine if we had shared interests, she took me to a sex shop and made me purchase a blow-up fuckable sheep doll. We drove back to my apartment and she invaded my bedroom and ordered me to remove all my clothing and to blow up my new girlfriend. There I was forced to “hit-on” the sheep. Then, while she watched and mocked me, I lubed up the sheep’s ass and sat on the floor at her feet. I was then ordered to mount the sheep while repeatedly chanting that I was a “loser with a loser penis.” As I pumped away, she startled me by leaning down and pinching my nipples. I felt so exploited and humiliated.
While I was straining away and fucking that sheep for all it was worth, with my consent, she took a few pictures of me and told me she was going to share them with her gal pals over drinks funded by me. She promised they would all share a good laugh at my expense. As I contemplated the humiliation that was being inflicted upon me, it put me over the edge and I came hard inside my “girlfriend,” while the young domme pointed and laughed.
Next, before I had recovered, she took the sheep from me and ordered me onto my back. The next thing I know I was being fed my own creampie. I began to gag but the domme reached down and grabbed me by the balls. “Eat the whole fucking load, loser,” she said. I was so deep in subspace that I simply did as I was told. It wasn’t as if I had a real choice anyhow.
After I finished choking down my own spunk, this gorgeous young Domme thanked me for the good laugh. She showed me a text she sent to a gal pal explaining that she had just made “some loser” fuck a blow-up sheep and then fed him his own disgusting spunk load. It excites me to think of what she did to me.
I’m blessed to be in an area where good dommes can be so readily found. The key is to carefully vet them out. While every sub has their own preferences, you can learn a lot from the way a domme presents herself. Analyze how they communicate. Gauge their intelligence level. I gravitate toward the ones that know how to write using proper grammar. They convey a certain calmness in their writing that suggests they are sane individuals who won’t pull anything crazy on you. If you take the time to really do your homework, the chances are high that you will be rewarded with a good experience. Approach dommes with a humble attitude and be as clear as possible about what you are hoping to get out of the session. Dommes aren’t minded readers and they will appreciate a sub who approaches them in this fashion. As is almost always the case, honesty is the best policy. Good luck out there!