The most important part about kink is to feel comfortable about it – – and – – perhaps more importantly, “know who we are”, if that makes any sense. While I’ve often felt a bit guilty (well, “perturbed” would probably be a better word) in my younger days about my fetishes, those days are long gone, and I’m more than comfortable now with honest, open discussion (as well as actual participation) in related activities.

Obviously discussing all this in “vanilla” life isn’t exactly the easiest of things to do (things seem to be slowly changing tho) and that holds doubly true for (so called?) conservative societies such as the one I’m in right now (China). I’ve often tried to “put aside my kinks” for the sake of another person, but – – as we all know – – that just “don’t work – – we can try and run away from what we like, or even perhaps ignore it, but that nagging and sometimes overwhelming desire will ALWAYS be there – – and rightfully so!

Other than kink, my other main interests are working out, taking care of my fitness based biz/writing, writing – again – yes (no prizes for guessing the genre, hehe), building websites and reading (something I really enjoy!). I’m an I.T. guy by trade, but I usually wear multiple hats at a time. . .

Working out is probably #2, or even “joint #1” on that list, by the way.